In Sickness and In Health
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A young friend got married recently. Although many partners are writing their own vows these days, traditional elements can still be found in ceremonies. At this wedding, the couple used the phrase “…in sickness and in health…” as my husband and I did so many years ago.
We say it so easily, especially when we are young, thinking our love can overcome any obstacles. We tend to assume that the health part will be our lot, and hope that the sickness part never comes to pass.
A cancer diagnosis can severely challenge all the relationships in our lives, not just those to whom we have made life-long vows. A friend may choose not to call because they don’t know what to say to you. A family member may distance themselves from you because they don’t want to think about the possibility that your shared genetics puts them at risk. A colleague may drift away from you as you shift your priorities to focus on your health.
Fortunately, there are those around us who are steadfast, loyally standing alongside no matter what life may bring. Whether life partner, family member, or friend, I want to express my gratitude for those who have been there for those of us in the breast cancer community… in sickness and in health.